Because marriage should be fun and affordable.
First things
first. I'm getting married!!! In 197 days (and totally counting), I will be the
proud Mrs. Brennon Schow, for the rest of all time and eternity. Umm....How do
I put this? Yeah. I'm stoked.
However, like
the majority of newlyweds and college students (and most certainly newly-wedded
college students) we just don't have a lot of money. I know this is nearly
200 days in the future we're talking about, but even then, we just won't have a
lot of money. And even if we did, we shouldn't/wouldn't want to spend it all on
just having fun and being in love. Because that just seems wasteful. (And I'm a
member of Recyclebank. I make pledges. So I really can't be wasteful.)
But everybody
knows that quality time with the ones you love is not only fun, but a vital part
of staying sane and happy! So I got to searching. Google search: Free Date
Ideas. Google search: Dates Under $1. Google search: Dates Under $5. And still,
I ended up with a total of like...32 Inexpensive Date Ideas that sounded
relatively fun. (Well, no. Some of them sounded really, really stellar, which
is why I added them to my own list. But overall it was a pretty mediocre list.)
And then I
remembered...I have a blog devoted to lists! I made that blog because the lists
I find on the internet are usually less-than-satisfactory! And that is
when I made it my personal duty to create...(drumroll please)...
THE ULTIMATE LIST OF FREE DATE IDEAS
It's a
long list. And I'm pretty proud of it. Some ideas are general and some are more
specific. I like the more general ones because they leave room to make it your
own. Also, I think it's important to note that some of these things won't be up
your ally. I tried to list things that my fiance and I...
*Don't
already do on a regular basis
*Love to do
but don't usually get time for
*Need to do
but we put them off
Because
those, I think, are the kinds of things that make the best dates! In other
words, try and
*Stray from
your usual
*Make it
special/meaningful to the two of you
*Get things
done that you need to do, but make it fun!
SO. If
anything on this list sounds boring, impossible/improbable, or like something
that you do every day anyway, don't discount it as a terrible idea! Replace it
with something that you and your significant other will love. Once you start
getting creative, you'll realize how many possibilities there are!
PLEASE: If
you come up with your own ideas or do something on this list, tell me about it
in the comments or send in pictures/videos! I would love to see how people are
taking this list and making it their own!
JSYK. We
aren't going to start pulling ideas from our jar until we get married, so so
far this list is just a list. But I wanted to post it right now because, well,
people might want it right now! But once I have actually done one of these, it
will be in this pink color, which means
that it is a link. If you click on the ones in pink you will be taken to a
blogpost where you will find pictures/videos/reports of mine and my husband's
date night for whichever idea you clicked on. Those links won't start existing
for another 200+ days though. Sorry. :)
Alright, I
think that's finally it. ....Enjoy!
FREE DATE #1: Create a Free Date Ideas Jar
- Art Project from Trash/Recycling Bin
- Babysit
- Backyard Carnival (Host)
- Bake a Pie
- Banana Split Party
- Basic Car Checkup (oil, tires, etc.) (Teach Jayme J)
- Bop-It Competition (Yes. I am talking about the toy from the nineties.)
- Boy Meets World Marathon (or whatever your favorite TV show is)
- Bubble Bath
- Build a City Out of Legos
- Build Your House Out of Legos
- Camping
- Candle Light Dinner at Home
- Canyon/Exploratory Drive
- Carve Pumpkins
- Cha Cha
- Change Out the Pictures in the Frames/On the Wall
- Choreograph a Line Dance
- Cleaning Date!
- Clean the Shower Squeaky Clean. Reward Yourselves with a Lovely Shower
- Cookie Decorating Contest
- Cooking Show
- Dance to Your Wedding Song/Playlist
- Disney Movie Marathon
- Do Puzzles
- Do Something “Improv Everywhere”-esque
- Doorbell Donking (I only justify that because that's what Brennon and I did the first time we ever hung out (when we were 15). I know it's not exactly socially acceptable, but it's nostalgic for us. J)
- Dumpster Diving!!
- Eighties Themed Date Night
- Family Barbeque (Remember: Pre-Budgeted Spending ONLY!!)
- Feed the Ducks (Nielson’s Grove?)
- Feed the LDS Missionaries
- Find a Rope Swing or Zipline (and Ride It!!)
- Find Free Furniture
- Finger Painting
- Fishing (Wait Brennon is Allergic to Fish!!)
- Fly Kites (Store Bought or Homemade-Easy Tutorial)
- Follow a Trail Head (a.k.a. Hike)
- Foxtrot
- Free Samples at Costco/Sam’s Club
- Free Show/Concert
- Frisbee Golf
- Game Night With Another Couple
- Get (Make? Collect?) Pet Rocks
- Get ALL the Laundry Done & Watch an 80’s Movie
- Get Ready Like You’re Going to a Black Tie Event (and undress like you just came back ;))
- Get Rid of At Least Five Things
- Ginger Bread Houses
- Give Away Copies of the Book of Mormon
- Give Each Other Make Overs
- Go Bobbing for Apples
- Go for a Walk & Pick Up Litter
- Go for a Walk on the LDS Temple Grounds
- Go to a Dog Park
- Go to a Poetry Reading or Something Similar
- Hang Out with Your Cousins
- Harry Potter Marathon
- Have a Bon Fire
- Have a Recital (cousins, siblings - piano, clogging, etc…)
- Have a Snow Day
- Help Each Other Shave
- Hike the White Rock
- Hiking
- Homemade Bowling
- Homemade Doughnuts
- Homemade Frosties (with Milk Ice Cubes!)
- Homemade Playdoh
- Host a “Just Dance” Party (The Video Game)
- Host a Milkshakes & Smoothies Party
- Host a Murder Mystery Dinner
- Humanitarian Aid Night
- Invent a Rube Goldberg Machine (Ideas here http://coolmaterial.com/roundup/rube-goldberg-machines/ and here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiHn5_RfKjE )
- Jousting (Get Creative!!)
- Jump in the Lake
- Just Make Some Truffles
- Lake/Beach
- Learn 15 New Words. Go Out and Use Them
- Learn Some Martial Arts Moves
- Learn to Juggle
- Lift Weights
- Listen to a Book on Tape (Well, an Audio Book of Sorts)
- Local Art Show
- Local Library
- Long Boarding
- Look Through Old Photos/Journals
- Make a Collage of Any Kind (Get Creative!)
- Make a Family Home Evening Chart
- Make a Fort (Blanket/Snow/Whatever)
- Make a Gift Basket & Give it to Someone
- Make a Leaf Pile (and Obviously Play in it)
- Make a Mural
- Make a Music Video (To “You Look Good in My Shirt by Keith Urban PLEEEEEEASE?? J)
- Make a Time Capsule
- Make a Vinegar & Baking Soda Volcano
- Make Bird Feeders
- Make Butterbeer
- Make Dinner for Hubby’s Family
- Make Dinner for Wifey’s Family
- Make Hubby’s Favorite Breakfast
- Make Hubby’s Favorite Dessert
- Make Hubby’s Favorite Dinner
- Make Newspaper Hats/Boats/Flowers
- Make Paper Snowflakes
- Make Popcorn Balls
- Make S’mores
- Make Wifey’s Favorite Breakfast
- Make Wifey’s Favorite Dessert
- Make Wifey’s Favorite Dinner
- Massage Night/Spa Night (Relax & Be in Love)
- Minute-To-Win-It Games
- Name Indexing/Get Own Names for Temple
- Nerf War (Borrow the stuff if you have to-NO SPENDING!!)
- Nickelodeon Marathon
- Organize the Closet(s)
- Organize/Have a “Take the Kids to Work Day”
- Origami
- Paint Fight
- Park Benching
- Penny in Flour Stack Game/Other Around the House Objects Games
- People Watching
- Photo Shoot
- Pick a Random Letter of the Alphabet. Eat, make, and/or do something(s) that starts with that letter!
- Picnic J
- Pie Eating Contest
- Pillow Fight
- Ping Pong Battle
- Plant Something
- Play at the Playground
- Play Dominoes
- Play Dress Up
- Play Hooky.
- Play Horse Shoes
- Play House at Ikea (Like in 500 Days of Summer)
- Play Rock Band or DDR
- Play Soccer (slash teach Jayme J)
- Play Tickle Monster
- Play Twister
- Play with Chalk (Hopscotch, etc…)
- Power Outage (No Electricity/Electronics-All Loooove!)
- Practice Your Backflips
- Promote the Family Business (aka Bren’s Music)
- Push Ups/Sit Ups Contest
- Re-watch a Conference Session
- Read-a-thon
- Rearrange the Living Room (Feng Shui)
- Red Light Game
- Reenact a Fun Day
- Relay Races/Obstacle Courses
- Review/Update Your Emergency Preparedness Plans
- River Rafting
- Roller Blade
- Run Through All the Sprinklers
- Sand Castle Making Contest
- Scooter Ride
- Shoot Hoops
- Shopping Cart Races
- Skinny Dipping!!
- Sleep In Together
- Sleepover with Younger Siblings
- Slip-N-Sliding
- Slow Dance
- Sock War
- Star Gazing
- Stone Soup/Left Overs Casserole (Clean out the Fridge)
- Study a Book of Scripture You’re Not Currently Reading (maybe D&C or New Testament…)
- Swing Dancing
- Take a Couples’ Cooking Class
- Take Out Neighbors’ Trash/Mow their Lawns for No Charge
- Take the Bus/Train to an Unplanned Destination
- Teach Each Other a New Skill
- Temple Night with Another Couple
- Test Drive Cars
- Treasure Hunt/Scavenger Hunt
- Tree Climbing
- Truth or Dare
- Try a New Vegetable (Maybe Cook with It)
- Type Up a Journal (Jayme’s Goal)
- Use a Free Redbox Code
- Viennese Waltz
- Visit a Cemetery
- Visit Someone Elderly
- Visit With Your Grandparents
- Wash The Cars (By Hand Of Course)
- Wash the Windows
- Watch an Eighties Movie
- Watch Family Home Videos
- Watch the Sunset/Sunrise
- Watch Your Parents’ Wedding Videos
- Watch Your Wedding Video
- Waterfall Hike (Bridal Veil, Stewart Falls, etc.)
- Weed Someone’s Garden/Yard
- White Elephant Gift Exchange/Party
- Window Shopping
- Wood Carving
- Wrap Items Around the House & Exchange Them as Gifts
- Write & Illustrate a Children’s Story
- Write a Rap Song – Youtube It
- Write Letters
- Yard Work for Strangers
- Yoga/Pilates
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