Tuesday, November 8, 2016

My Once-In-A-Lifetime Rampage on Politics.

This is how I feel on each of the issues that matters to me. I'm mostly writing this out so that I can vote for the person that I agree with the most. Because the party system drives me so bonkers. I hope that each person voting today will look individually at the issues that are important to them, rather than choosing party loyalty, which just creates discrimination and disunity in our country.

Gun Control. This issue is the most important one to me right now, and will probably be the #1 determining factor in who I vote for today. I don't want to take away your guns. As long as you are a law abiding, tax paying citizen who is reasonable in the face of crisis and is well-trained in the use of any firearm you own. It's true that if I had it my way, I would go back in time and make it so that guns were never invented. They are weapons of mass destruction designed to take life on impact, and I believe that they have done as much harm as they have good in the history of the world. For me and my husband, we have discussed many times that if we were held at gun point we would rather die than take another human life. We would never want that blood on our hands, and we believe that we would go to Heaven anyway, which is a lot better than here. BUT. I can't go back in time. And I know many law abiding, responsible gun owners who use their weapons for hunting for their own food and keep them on hand for self-defense, and I can understand that and admire that. I can acknowledge that there are good uses for guns. So I don't want to take away your guns, but absolutely I want to keep them out of the wrong hands. We have had way too many instances this past year of guns in the wrong hands. Long story short: I support common sense gun laws.

Healthcare. I've never really been outside of the United States. I've barely left Utah in my 22 years of life. I really don't know what the solution to the healthcare problem in our country is. But, I know that for my husband and me, it has been way to hard and way to expensive to get the care that we need, especially for our mental health issues. And I know that Medicaid has allowed me to take my baby to the doctor whenever I have had even an ounce of worry, without having to fret over the cost. From what I've read and seen, I think that socialized medicine could do a lot of good in our country. However, like I said, I don't think that I know enough about this issue to really defend my stance, but I do know that healthcare at the present time is not affordable enough or accessible enough, and I know that something needs to be done about that. And I applaud President Obama for taking a stand and doing what he thought was best for the healthcare reform in our country. Mostly, I care that the presidential candidate I vote for has a well thought out plan for healthcare reform and that they genuinely care about the issue, whether their proposed solution is the same as President Obama's or not.

Discrimination. To me, this issue is just plain annoying. Obviously men and women should be paid the same wages for the same job. And obviously they should be hired not because of their sex/gender identity/sexual orientation, but because of their qualifications. Sometimes a woman is less-qualified for a job than a man, and the federal government shouldn't require a certain percentage of men and woman in the workplace because then they are just adding to the sexism problem, but this time in favor of men instead of favor of woman. The most qualified human should get the job. End of story. Black lives matter and so do white lives and brown lives and Muslim lives and Mormon lives and atheist lives and gay lives and straight lives and republican lives and democrat lives and ALL LIVES. Citizens and police men should learn to be civil with each other and should follow protocols regardless of race, gender, etc. Gay people should be able to get married and churches should be able to refuse to marry someone if it goes against their religious views. YOU DO YOU, MAN. Stop assuming that because something didn't go your way, it's because you're discriminated against, and if you're the one doing the discriminating, stop that too. A human is a human is a human and we dang well better start treating each other like it.

Spending. Stop saying "We need to cut spending in this area that I hate but increase it in this area that I like." My opinion, cut spending a little bit everywhere and then learn to live inside that budget like most Americans have to do every day. Get creative, do what you gotta do. Ideally, eventually get to a point of no deficit spending, but obviously that would/will take many years. Finally, implement a flat-rate tax percentage. Everyone gives 20% or whatever. Get rid of outlandish deductions and loopholes. Stop making taxes out to be so complicated.

Abortion and Birth-Control. My religious view is that life begins at conception but I know that not everyone shares that view. One view, though, that is widely accepted is that when a person's heart stops beating, they are dead. What do you do when you think a person is dead? Take their pulse. No pulse? Start CPR. So I don't feel that there should be an argument that a specimen is alive once it has a heartbeat. That is how we determine life. So, before about 8 weeks when a heartbeat can first be detected, I support educating women and then giving them options like the Plan B pill and abortion (as much as those things make me sad and I hope that women will feel empowered to choose life even though other options are available to them). But once there's a heartbeat, sorry, that's a living thing inside you and so many choices have been made before now that your time to choose is up. There should be exceptions for cases of rape, incest, and medical emergency.

Education. Agh. This is one that I actually agree is complicated. To me a lot of issues are like "Duh guys." But education is just less cut and dry to me. Anyway. College should be affordable. 90% of tuition should absolutely stop going towards athletics and start going towards, you know, learning. Public school tests shouldn't be so standardized across the nation; teachers should be able to work more personally with each child and use their discretion to determine how well a child is doing. But like i said, it's a complicated issue, and like I said, spending needs to be cut everywhere. So we need to get creative with the education solution. And I don't think I know what it is.

So there ya have it. My political views. Love me or hate me or just mind your own business. But please, please, please, vote for a candidate who you believe will do what they think is best for our country, who will be a good face for our country (since that's basically what the president does anyway), and who you agree with on the issues. Blind party loyalty weakens our country.

In the end, love everyone. That's what Jesus, and every other awesome person ever, did. See the good in people. Speak kindly of others. Give the benefit of the doubt. Being the president is hard so maybe give them a break once in a while. Don't ruin relationships over things that don't matter (aka politics). In the end, all that really matters is people. ❤️

Tuesday, September 6, 2016

Visual Debt Payoff Charts

These charts are a visual way to track payments of debt and savings! They are free for personal use.

Instructions

1. Print the desired image

2. Take the desired amount of money required and divide it by the number of horizontal lines on the page. The number you get is the integer you need to add on to each line to fill the page. Write the numbers on the lines.

3. As you make your way to financial freedom, color the page and watch the debt disappear!

Example:

Let's say I have $30,000 in student loans, and I have 25 lines to fill up. So I would divide

$30,000 / 25 = $1,200

And then I would start at the top and subtract 1200 each line until I get to the bottom. :)



Good luck!

If you want any other charts made, please let me know! I'd be happy to! :)


Emergency Fund Visual Chart

Car Loan Visual Chart
Student Loans Visual Chart

Saturday, November 7, 2015

The Wheat From The Tares


A list of reasons that I can still be a Mormon even when God asks me to do things that I don't understand.

Why am I writing this?

That part is simple.
Rabecca. Jordan. Grandma. Dave. Blaine. Camille. Thad. Aren.
The list goes on and on.
Family. Friends. Peers. Acquaintances. Loved ones.

I am writing this because people I care about have been hurt by the recent change in LDS policy that children of gays cannot be baptized until they are 18, without special permission from The First Presidency. 

I am not writing this post to change anyone's opinion. It's not about what I have to prove ("I'm smart, you're dumb; I'm big, you're small; I'm right, you're wrong" as the dad in Matilda would put it). It is about what I stand to lose: cherished relationships with people who I love, respect, and care about.

I do not want our differences to come between us.

I figure that if something happened that offended me as much as this has clearly hurt all of you, and  you went along with it, I'm sure I would be wondering, "How can they possibly support that?" And it might taint my opinion of you or cause a riff in our cherished relationship.

That is what I want to avoid.

I repeat:
It's not about what I have to prove. It is about what I stand to lose.

So, because I want you to love me despite our differences, to help you understand where I'm coming from, here are a few reasons that I believe this recent policy change has taken place. It is because of my faith in these principles, and others, that I will remain firm in my faith even when others question it. (If you've read my recent Facebook comments, you'll already have seen some of these. But this is my attempt to organize them in a way that is a little more…well, organized.)

1. He's testing them.

"And [The Lord] said [unto Abraham], Lay not thine hand upon the lad, neither do thou any thing unto him: for now I know that thou fearest God, seeing thou has not withheld thy son, thine only son from me."
(Genesis 22:12)

I'm sure that taken as an attack on anyone who is gay or has gay family members, this policy seems horrendously discriminatory. And if mortal men had made this decision, it would be. But I do not believe that this decision was made by mortal men. I believe with everything I have that this decision was made by God. The same God who sent these exact children to this exact earth at this exact time, knowing full-well how these exact children would be affected by this exact policy.

God knew that this is exact trial is what these exact children needed at this exact time to help them grow and flourish in His Kingdom in the best way possible for them. For these exact children whom He knows, loves, and watches over every day.

How can I say this when I am not one of these children?

Because God has done the same thing for me. Many times in my life when faced with a trial, I have at first said, "This is not fair", "Why me", "This doesn't make sense." But as the trial went on I found myself praising God and loving Him more than I ever could have without this trial, because I realized now that it was exactly what I needed at the exact time. I wish I had time to go into every example of this. I won't go into them here, but please, reach out to me and I will personally share one or more of these "Abraham and Isaac experiences" with you so that you can see that I know how God's fellow children are feeling when He tests them in this way.

2. He's testing me.

It would be easy to label me as a bigot because I am going along with this policy and not allowing it to shake my faith. But please do not mistake the fact that my faith is not shaken for the idea that my heart is not breaking.

My heart is breaking for these children.

(Anyone who has a heart's heart is breaking for these children.)

For whatever reason, I have been blessed from the time that I was very small with a very strong faith in the God who gave me life. So when it was my turn to join His church that I love so very much, I did not take my time approaching the waters of baptism, dipping one toe in at a time, but ran full speed ahead and cannon balled in. And every day since I have been grateful that I made that choice, because of how much happiness it has brought me.

So of course, I want every one to be given the same opportunity. And to know that some children of God (not just children of gays, but people in all sorts of different situations from mine) cannot, for whatever reason, be baptized right when they turn 8 is hard for me. But when the Lord gives these hard commandments, even if they don't apply to me, He expects me to trust Him with everything I have and to not let it ruin my cherished relationship with Him.

Just like I have said, "Why me", many times in my life I have said, "Why him?" or "Why her?".  I have poured out my soul to God, begging Him to help me understand why someone I love so much had to go through something so incredibly difficult.

But that is the nature of mortality.

This life is a test. And it is hard. And it is temporary. Not just for me. Not just for gays or children of gays. But for everyone.

3. A covenant, not a club.

Now this is where I get into some very sacred LDS doctrine that, although simple at its core, is hard to explain and has taken me a lifetime to understand. But I feel I should share it anyway, because it is one of the biggest things that sets our church apart from many others. It is about our view on baptism.

From what I understand, in most religions baptism is a symbol of your faith and a chance to show God and others that you love Him. But in the LDS church, we believe that when we are baptized and confirmed we make very specific, very sacred promises to God, and we are bound by these promises for the rest of eternity. We promise to bear the name of Christ and be a witness of Him, to keep all the commandments of God, and to always remember the Lord. In return, God promises that we as we do these things, we will always have His Spirit to be with us, to guide and comfort us on life's journey.

The sacred nature of covenants is something that we take very seriously. So a child needs a good support system (parents, grandparents, etc.) who understand these covenants, in order to be able to live up to the promises that they have made and eventually be saved in the Kingdom of God. 

The policy that has always been in place in the LDS church is that to be baptized any child under 18 must 1) receive parental permission, 2) be living worthily, 3) be at least 8 years of age, and 4) have at least a basic understanding of the eternal significance of what they're doing.

The change that happened in the policy is that now children living with gay parents have to be 18 to be baptized, unless they receive specific permission from the first presidency. This may sound drastic, but this is actually a pretty common thing in our church. Not just for baptism, but for other cases as well, like attending the temple. Someone who is in an out-of-the-ordinary situation where they are at a statistically higher risk of breaking their covenants (history of serious sins, parents do not live or believe the gospel, coming from a culture like the Muslim culture where becoming a Christian is illegal) is often required to write a letter to the first presidency explaining their situation to get specific permission to be baptized, go to the temple, etc. Once they receive permission they can proceed as normal and all is fine and dandy. They may receive extra attention from their church leaders to help make sure they stay on the right path, but so does anyone who is having a particularly hard time.

The goal is just to make sure that anyone making such a significant and sacred change in their life has the support system that they need to be able to do so worthily.

The part that the NYTimes stated about having to disavow your family is a huge misunderstanding/misrepresentation of the policy.

We promise not to engage in same-sex behaviors ourselves, but we love our family the very same.

4. Sacred, not secret.

I posted on Facebook, "I feel like I should say that this issuewas never meant to be publicized. The church only comes out and publicizes policies that are meant to be heard by the whole world/whole church. Otherwise things like this are left very personal between God, His servants, and His children. This came out in the open because someone digging up dirt on the church wanted something to spread about us for the sake of causing contention. As far as the church is concerned, this issue is between these members and their families and the Lord. It was never meant to be everybody else's business."

Someone asked me why that makes it okay.

Here I wanted to try and clarify what the reason for not publicizing things like this is.

With the exception of like 10 very specific things that happen in the temple, nothing about the LDS church is a secret. Yes, we were commanded to practice polygamy for a short time in the 1800's. Yes, black people had to wait longer than whites to receive the Priesthood. Yes, we wear funny underwear. These controversial issues, while difficult to talk about sometimes, are things we as a church are very open about. These are not secrets. However, many things in our church are supposed to be held very sacred. This means that we don't go talking about them all the time to anyone who will listen. We don't post about them on Facebook or make movies about them. 

We hold them sacred.

This means that we discuss or address these parts of our religion when it is appropriate, on more of a need-to-know basis. With our spouse, our bishop, in the temple. These are places that it is good and important to discuss sacred matters with others. But most of the time they are our personal matters that we share only with God and our spouse, parents, or those who need to know about them. This is because we love God and our relationship with Him so much that we don't want the world to infringe on that sacred union. So we hold it in our hearts where it can be safe from other's scorn, as well as from Satan and his followers. 

At least that is how I view my covenants and other sacred experiences. They are beautiful and cherished, but they are so important to me that I'm not going to put them on display where Satan can knock them down or take pictures of them or talk crudely about them. I will hold them where only God and I can see, so that they remain untainted from the world.

Everything that happens in a church (any church) doesn't have to be everyone else's business. Our church, especially, emphasizes personal relationship with God over how the world sees us. We understand and appreciate that we are "a peculiar people" (1 Peter 2:9). Whatever anyone else thinks does not matter as long as God thinks and I think that I am choosing the right.

Conclusion

I don't claim to know everything about the God I believe in or the LDS church. But I have tried to explain our doctrine and policies (which, by the way, are not the same thing) to the best of my understanding and to help you feel a little more tolerant toward me and my beliefs.

I hope I have helped soften at least one heart today. Again, I will love you the same no matter your opinion of my church or its policies. And I hope with all of my heart that I can receive the same attitude from you. I hope that our differences, however big or small, will not come between us, but allow us to see each other in a new and brilliant light and even strengthen our relationship. 

Hopefully now, even if you hate me, you can sort of understand where I'm coming from.

Mormon Lingo

Abraham and Isaac experiences: In chapter 22 of Genesis, the Lord told Abraham to go up to the mountain and sacrifice his only son, Isaac, on the altar. With a heavy heart, Abraham prepared to do this thing, the hardest thing that the Lord would ever ask of him. But just as he was holding the knife in preparation to perform the sacrifice, the Lord stopped him. "Abraham and Isaac" experiences are moments when the Lord stretches us nearly to our snapping point. But He stops us just in the nick of time. So that we have grown and stretched and become better, but never snapped.

Covenants: "A covenant is a sacred agreement between God and a person or a group of people. God sets specific conditions, and He promises to bless us as we obey those conditions. When we choose not to keep covenants, we cannot receive the blessings, and in some instances we suffer a penalty as a consequence of our disobedience." (lds.org, gospel topics).

Mortality: Mormons believe in a life before this one as well as a life after. We believe that this life is a "probationary state; a time to prepare to meet God: a time to prepare for that endless state…which is after the resurrection of the dead." (Alma 12: 24). So this life is not what matters. This life is a test to help us prepare for Eternal Life, which is the important part. The good part. 

Being "saved" in the Kingdom of God: Unlike many Christians, the LDS church teaches that being saved is not a one time thing, but a process. After baptism and temple covenants, we are faced with trials and temptations and we are required to overcome these through Christ's help to maintain our relationship with God and our literal place in His Kingdom. Some people describe it like this: we have a castle in God's Kingdom, but being baptized only lays the foundation for our Heavenly Home. We must continue to make righteous choices to lay the bricks and mortar and furnish the home. Salvation is a lifelong, even stretching into the post-mortal life, process.

The First Presidency is comprised of the prophet, Thomas S. Monson, and his counselors, Dieter F. Uchtdorf and Henry B. Eyring.

Thursday, November 7, 2013

I Wish I'd Known This Sooner

Computer-Related Tutorials that I Have ALWAYS Needed But Never Bothered to Look Up

I'm sure that this list is going to grow. But I decided to post it now in hopes that I can help someone escape some of the frustration they are experiencing regarding their not-so-intuitive/user-friendly computer needs.







3. Printing Multiple Pages Per Sheet, Not Copies Per Page, on a Mac

NO VIDEO FOR THIS ONE YET. SORRY, FOLKS.
Just click the link and scroll down to the Heading "Record Your Screen"
4. How to Record Your Computer Screen (With or Without Sound)


5. Align text left and right on the same line in Microsoft Word

Wednesday, November 6, 2013

The Internet's Most Extensive List of Free Date Ideas

Because marriage should be fun and affordable.

First things first. I'm getting married!!! In 197 days (and totally counting), I will be the proud Mrs. Brennon Schow, for the rest of all time and eternity. Umm....How do I put this? Yeah. I'm stoked.
However, like the majority of newlyweds and college students (and most certainly newly-wedded college students) we just don't have a lot of money. I know this is nearly 200 days in the future we're talking about, but even then, we just won't have a lot of money. And even if we did, we shouldn't/wouldn't want to spend it all on just having fun and being in love. Because that just seems wasteful. (And I'm a member of Recyclebank. I make pledges. So I really can't be wasteful.)

But everybody knows that quality time with the ones you love is not only fun, but a vital part of staying sane and happy! So I got to searching. Google search: Free Date Ideas. Google search: Dates Under $1. Google search: Dates Under $5. And still, I ended up with a total of like...32 Inexpensive Date Ideas that sounded relatively fun. (Well, no. Some of them sounded really, really stellar, which is why I added them to my own list. But overall it was a pretty mediocre list.)

And then I remembered...I have a blog devoted to lists! I made that blog because the lists I find on the internet are usually less-than-satisfactory! And that is when I made it my personal duty to create...(drumroll please)...

THE ULTIMATE LIST OF FREE DATE IDEAS

It's a long list. And I'm pretty proud of it. Some ideas are general and some are more specific. I like the more general ones because they leave room to make it your own. Also, I think it's important to note that some of these things won't be up your ally. I tried to list things that my fiance and I...

*Don't already do on a regular basis
*Love to do but don't usually get time for
*Need to do but we put them off

Because those, I think, are the kinds of things that make the best dates! In other words, try and

*Stray from your usual
*Make it special/meaningful to the two of you
*Get things done that you need to do, but make it fun!

SO. If anything on this list sounds boring, impossible/improbable, or like something that you do every day anyway, don't discount it as a terrible idea! Replace it with something that you and your significant other will love. Once you start getting creative, you'll realize how many possibilities there are!

PLEASE: If you come up with your own ideas or do something on this list, tell me about it in the comments or send in pictures/videos! I would love to see how people are taking this list and making it their own!

JSYK. We aren't going to start pulling ideas from our jar until we get married, so so far this list is just a list. But I wanted to post it right now because, well, people might want it right now! But once I have actually done one of these, it will be in this pink color, which means that it is a link. If you click on the ones in pink you will be taken to a blogpost where you will find pictures/videos/reports of mine and my husband's date night for whichever idea you clicked on. Those links won't start existing for another 200+ days though. Sorry. :)

Alright, I think that's finally it. ....Enjoy!

FREE DATE #1: Create a Free Date Ideas Jar


  1.  Art Project from Trash/Recycling Bin
  2. Babysit
  3. Backyard Carnival (Host)
  4. Bake a Pie
  5. Banana Split Party
  6. Basic Car Checkup (oil, tires, etc.) (Teach Jayme J)
  7. Bop-It Competition (Yes. I am talking about the toy from the nineties.)
  8. Boy Meets World Marathon (or whatever your favorite TV show is)
  9. Bubble Bath
  10. Build a City Out of Legos
  11. Build Your House Out of Legos
  12. Camping
  13. Candle Light Dinner at Home
  14. Canyon/Exploratory Drive
  15. Carve Pumpkins
  16. Cha Cha
  17. Change Out the Pictures in the Frames/On the Wall
  18. Choreograph a Line Dance
  19. Cleaning Date!
  20. Clean the Shower Squeaky Clean. Reward Yourselves with a Lovely Shower
  21. Cookie Decorating Contest
  22. Cooking Show
  23. Dance to Your Wedding Song/Playlist
  24. Disney Movie Marathon
  25. Do Puzzles
  26. Do Something “Improv Everywhere”-esque
  27. Doorbell Donking (I only justify that because that's what Brennon and I did the first time we ever hung out (when we were 15). I know it's not exactly socially acceptable, but it's nostalgic for us.  J)
  28. Dumpster Diving!!
  29. Eighties Themed Date Night
  30. Family Barbeque (Remember: Pre-Budgeted Spending ONLY!!)
  31. Feed the Ducks (Nielsons Grove?)
  32. Feed the LDS Missionaries
  33. Find a Rope Swing or Zipline (and Ride It!!)
  34. Find Free Furniture
  35. Finger Painting
  36. Fishing (Wait Brennon is Allergic to Fish!!)
  37. Fly Kites (Store Bought or Homemade-Easy Tutorial)
  38. Follow a Trail Head (a.k.a. Hike)
  39. Foxtrot
  40. Free Samples at Costco/Sam’s Club
  41. Free Show/Concert
  42. Frisbee Golf
  43. Game Night With Another Couple
  44. Get (Make? Collect?) Pet Rocks
  45. Get ALL the Laundry Done & Watch an 80s Movie
  46. Get Ready Like Youre Going to a Black Tie Event (and undress like you just came back ;))
  47. Get Rid of At Least Five Things
  48. Ginger Bread Houses
  49. Give Away Copies of the Book of Mormon
  50. Give Each Other Make Overs
  51. Go Bobbing for Apples
  52. Go for a Walk & Pick Up Litter
  53. Go for a Walk on the LDS Temple Grounds
  54. Go to a Dog Park
  55. Go to a Poetry Reading or Something Similar
  56. Hang Out with Your Cousins
  57. Harry Potter Marathon
  58. Have a Bon Fire
  59. Have a Recital (cousins, siblings - piano, clogging, etc)
  60. Have a Snow Day
  61. Help Each Other Shave
  62. Hike the White Rock
  63. Hiking
  64. Homemade Bowling
  65. Homemade Doughnuts
  66. Homemade Frosties (with Milk Ice Cubes!)
  67. Homemade Playdoh
  68. Host a Just Dance Party (The Video Game)
  69. Host a Milkshakes & Smoothies Party
  70. Host a Murder Mystery Dinner
  71. Humanitarian Aid Night
  72. Invent a Rube Goldberg Machine (Ideas here http://coolmaterial.com/roundup/rube-goldberg-machines/ and here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiHn5_RfKjE )
  73. Jousting (Get Creative!!)
  74. Jump in the Lake
  75. Just Make Some Truffles
  76. Lake/Beach
  77. Learn 15 New Words. Go Out and Use Them
  78. Learn Some Martial Arts Moves
  79. Learn to Juggle
  80. Lift Weights
  81. Listen to a Book on Tape (Well, an Audio Book of Sorts)
  82. Local Art Show
  83. Local Library
  84. Long Boarding
  85. Look Through Old Photos/Journals
  86. Make a Collage of Any Kind (Get Creative!)
  87. Make a Family Home Evening Chart
  88. Make a Fort (Blanket/Snow/Whatever)
  89. Make a Gift Basket & Give it to Someone
  90. Make a Leaf Pile (and Obviously Play in it)
  91. Make a Mural
  92. Make a Music Video (To You Look Good in My Shirt by Keith Urban PLEEEEEEASE?? J)
  93. Make a Time Capsule
  94. Make a Vinegar & Baking Soda Volcano
  95. Make Bird Feeders
  96. Make Butterbeer
  97. Make Dinner for Hubbys Family
  98. Make Dinner for Wifeys Family
  99. Make Hubbys Favorite Breakfast
  100. Make Hubbys Favorite Dessert
  101. Make Hubbys Favorite Dinner
  102. Make Newspaper Hats/Boats/Flowers
  103. Make Paper Snowflakes
  104. Make Popcorn Balls
  105. Make Smores
  106. Make Wifeys Favorite Breakfast
  107. Make Wifeys Favorite Dessert
  108. Make Wifeys Favorite Dinner
  109. Massage Night/Spa Night (Relax & Be in Love)
  110. Minute-To-Win-It Games
  111. Name Indexing/Get Own Names for Temple
  112. Nerf War (Borrow the stuff if you have to-NO SPENDING!!)
  113. Nickelodeon Marathon
  114. Organize the Closet(s)
  115. Organize/Have a “Take the Kids to Work Day”
  116. Origami
  117. Paint Fight
  118. Park Benching
  119. Penny in Flour Stack Game/Other Around the House Objects Games
  120. People Watching
  121. Photo Shoot
  122. Pick a Random Letter of the Alphabet. Eat, make, and/or do something(s) that starts with that letter!
  123. Picnic J
  124. Pie Eating Contest
  125. Pillow Fight
  126. Ping Pong Battle
  127. Plant Something
  128. Play at the Playground
  129. Play Dominoes
  130. Play Dress Up
  131. Play Hooky.
  132. Play Horse Shoes
  133. Play House at Ikea (Like in 500 Days of Summer)
  134. Play Rock Band or DDR
  135. Play Soccer (slash teach Jayme J)
  136. Play Tickle Monster
  137. Play Twister
  138. Play with Chalk (Hopscotch, etc)
  139. Power Outage (No Electricity/Electronics-All Loooove!)
  140. Practice Your Backflips
  141. Promote the Family Business (aka Brens Music)
  142. Push Ups/Sit Ups Contest
  143. Re-watch a Conference Session
  144. Read-a-thon
  145. Rearrange the Living Room (Feng Shui)
  146. Red Light Game
  147. Reenact a Fun Day
  148. Relay Races/Obstacle Courses
  149. Review/Update Your Emergency Preparedness Plans
  150. River Rafting
  151. Roller Blade
  152. Run Through All the Sprinklers
  153. Sand Castle Making Contest
  154. Scooter Ride
  155. Shoot Hoops
  156. Shopping Cart Races
  157. Skinny Dipping!!
  158. Sleep In Together
  159. Sleepover with Younger Siblings
  160. Slip-N-Sliding
  161. Slow Dance
  162. Sock War
  163. Star Gazing
  164. Stone Soup/Left Overs Casserole (Clean out the Fridge)
  165. Study a Book of Scripture Youre Not Currently Reading (maybe D&C or New Testament)
  166. Swing Dancing
  167. Take a Couples Cooking Class
  168. Take Out Neighbors Trash/Mow their Lawns for No Charge
  169. Take the Bus/Train to an Unplanned Destination
  170. Teach Each Other a New Skill
  171. Temple Night with Another Couple
  172. Test Drive Cars
  173. Treasure Hunt/Scavenger Hunt
  174. Tree Climbing
  175. Truth or Dare
  176. Try a New Vegetable (Maybe Cook with It)
  177. Type Up a Journal (Jayme’s Goal)
  178. Use a Free Redbox Code
  179. Viennese Waltz
  180. Visit a Cemetery
  181. Visit Someone Elderly
  182. Visit With Your Grandparents
  183. Wash The Cars (By Hand Of Course)
  184. Wash the Windows
  185. Watch an Eighties Movie
  186. Watch Family Home Videos
  187. Watch the Sunset/Sunrise
  188. Watch Your Parents Wedding Videos
  189. Watch Your Wedding Video
  190. Waterfall Hike (Bridal Veil, Stewart Falls, etc.)
  191. Weed Someone’s Garden/Yard
  192. White Elephant Gift Exchange/Party
  193. Window Shopping
  194. Wood Carving
  195. Wrap Items Around the House & Exchange Them as Gifts
  196. Write & Illustrate a Childrens Story
  197. Write a Rap Song – Youtube It
  198. Write Letters
  199. Yard Work for Strangers
  200. Yoga/Pilates